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"Never give up on a dream because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass..."

Mon, 25 Mar 2013 18:14:36 -0400

“Never give up on a dream because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.”

- Earl Nightingale (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

"Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in..."

Tue, 19 Mar 2013 08:43:00 -0400

“Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so that they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you really need to do, in order to have what you want.”

- Margaret Mead (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

The Dalai Lama’s rules for living

Tue, 05 Mar 2013 09:55:23 -0500

onlinecounsellingcollege:

"The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a..."

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 14:41:38 -0500

“The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.”

- Jim Morrison (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

COUNSELLING BLOG: How to Find Direction in Life

Thu, 07 Feb 2013 20:53:23 -0500

COUNSELLING BLOG: How to Find Direction in Life:

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Keep a journal where you record all your different thoughts, feelings and ideas. Look for patterns and consistency – ideas that grab you and get stronger over time.

2. Explore new passions, interests and hobbies. Some of those will stick and intensify; others will slowly fade and disappear.

Tiffany: TOUCHING STORY:There was a blind girl who hated herself just because...

Wed, 30 Jan 2013 01:35:42 -0500

Tiffany: TOUCHING STORY:There was a blind girl who hated herself just because...:

my-story-startz-here:

TOUCHING STORY:

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.
One day, someone donated a pair of…

Curiosity

Wed, 30 Jan 2013 01:30:00 -0500

“Love is blinding but the time is never right, who am i to beg for difference finding live in just an instance, but i don’t mind. Oh love…at least i tried”
-Jason Mraz

Fly or die trying

Tue, 29 Jan 2013 09:37:25 -0500

Sometimes when you wake up, you fall and die. And sometimes you fall and begin to fly…so which one is happening to me? I have woke up and felt dead internally, but from my exterior many people haven’t a clue. I have also woke up and began to fly knowing that yesterday has past and only today is the focus, but when you think you’re soaring to greater heights something blindly side swipes you and breaks your elevation. Which leaves you back on the soil and ground with everyone else just living but dont feel alive. Walking around with a group of tin-men and zombies. I am unable to stay on the ground because that’s not where I belong because i feel. Elevation is where I am at home with the like-minded and conscious. I just want to fly.

From a place in the atmosphere...

Sun, 27 Jan 2013 09:20:19 -0500

I am unable to be clear verbally when emotionally I am not being seen for doing the right thing. I am cluttered by my thoughts and various pressures coming from different directions which cause the being to be operational. As much as one attempts to focus on the good in this world, the negative energy jumps the line to prove how big and bold it is and how it has cause to exist. But what’s the reason for it’s existence when all it does is erupt into the mind and spread like a virus. How hard is it to enjoy life and live your best life you can?

I unable to mask myself with joy and happiness when I am in a grey place in order to appease society. Everyone has their own right to do so and I’m sure that if more beings said how they feel good or bad then things would be less complicated.

"If pain must come, may it come quickly. Because I have a life to live, and I need to live it in the..."

Tue, 22 Jan 2013 20:35:33 -0500

“If pain must come, may it come quickly. Because I have a life to live, and I need to live it in the best way possible. If he has to make a choice, may he make it now. Then I will either wait for him or forget him.”

- ― Paulo Coelho, By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept (via sepiaskinnedsiren)
The truth indeed

When you get the answers to your questions your supposed to feel closure and be able to continue on...

Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:31:38 -0500

When you get the answers to your questions your supposed to feel closure and be able to continue on with your life journey, but why am I still sensing a lack of incompleteness from the information I have gained?Am i still looking for more? Am I still looking for more certainty that this chapter of my life is closed or am I looking to control a situation which is out of my control? The worst thing in life is wanting someone or something the way you want them or it. It’s painful and completely unobtainable at the same time.

I know the saying “you can’t always get what you want” speaks truth to many facets in my life, but it’s not really about wanting something that you can’t have. It’s really the matter of thinking that you were wanted at a given time and aren’t no longer. And at a drop of a dime. There’s no lead up, no warning signs or clarity just no more. Could it be possible that you were never wanted in the first place and it was just a self-absorbed, sardistic act that I had to experience for the sake of ones selfishness of being needed at one time or another? If I walked around with such lack of respect of human life, I would probably not want to be here neither, but coming from an INFJ. I wouldn’t let anyone come in contact with such an evil being. I wouldn’t reflect my personal issues upon anyone else regardless on how close or important they are to me…more to follow after this attempt at therapy.

INFJ Thought of the day.

Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:48:11 -0500

I have justrealized that someone that I love isn’t theperson I thought they were. And completely took my kindness for weakness. So with that being said, Ishall not retaliate with malicious acts orugly thoughts, but express that lying is the worst thing that you can do. Now you have to live with your own demons and I shall not look back.

“All I ask is one thing: Please do not be cynical. I hate cynicism. For the record, it’s my least favorite quality. It’s doesn’t lead anywhere. No one in life gets exactly what they thought they were going to get. But if you work really hard and you’re kind, amazing things will happen”.

-Conan O’Brien

"You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who..."

Thu, 10 Jan 2013 09:37:38 -0500

“You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, old man,
but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices.”

- Augustus Waters, The Fault in Our Stars
— John Green (via sepiaskinnedsiren)

How to love your INFJ

Sat, 05 Jan 2013 15:39:49 -0500

How to love your INFJ :

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1. Your INFJ adores you more than they can express with words. Even if they don’t tell you verbally, they will show you how they feel through their patience, kindness, and willingness to please you.

2. Thank your INFJ with sincere hugs and kisses, and tell us you appreciate the things that we do for you. Just knowing that you’re aware of it is reward enough to keep us overjoyed (and enthusiastically continuing to do all the things you love that we do for you).

3. If an INFJ is in a romantic relationship with you, they consider you their number one priority in life. Your happiness and well being are the most important things in their lives.

4. Your INFJ can sense your emotions even more acutely than if you were telling us with words. We can feel what you are feeling. Don’t be alarmed by this as we will never use it against you. However, this means you can never lie to us. If you try, we will know, it will hurt our feelings badly that you did.

5. We love it when you just walk up to us and hold us. No words. Nothing complicated. Just gently wrap your arms around us and focus on how you feel about us. We can feel it like it is pouring out of you and into us. Don’t be alarmed if we cry when you do this.

6. We love to listen. Don’t be afraid to tell us what is on your mind, even if we didn’t ask. We love you and respect your privacy, and don’t like to pry.

7. We also love it when you listen to us. Please ask us questions to show us that you care, and let us talk when you do. The more intently you are interested in how we feel and what we have to say, the more we will love you.

8. Sometimes we need to recharge our minds, and will sit and stare blankly into space. This is perfectly normal, as your INFJ is rebooting their amazing mind. Systems will be online again shortly.

9. We thrive in an environment with just you, and a few of our closest loved ones. The more opportunities you help us create for these kinds of environments, the happier we will be.

10. We don’t do well in crowds for extended periods. We will join you in them if that’s where you want to go, but please be mindful of the duration of contact. INFJs may become unresponsive and even irritable when exposed to crowds for too long.

11. While we are extremely affectionate with you, we’re generally not interested in being affectionate with anyone else, and physical contact with strangers may unsettle your INFJ. It is best to keep strangers from attempting to pet your INFJ.

12. Your INFJ accepts you for everything you are. However, INFJs can be especially eccentric. If you accept your INFJ’s eccentricities and peculiar interests, this will greatly increase your INFJ’s happiness.

13. INFJs are otherwise very self sufficient low maintenance pets, and can be left to their own little worlds for extended periods. However, infrequent moments of affection are always appreciated.

14. Always kiss your INFJ goodnight and tell them that you love them, even if you’re not going to sleep when they do.

15. Always cuddle with your INFJ when they wake up and greet their day with love.

16. Your INFJ will have a reflex to help others. Do not be alarmed by this, as it does not in any way reflect on how your INFJ feels about you, or your relationship. It is simply our nature to help others – sometimes to a degree that makes the ones we love assume they are less of a priority. Nothing could be further from the truth.

17. Your INFJ is a planner. Sometimes spontaneity leaves us in a position that we cannot plan how to best make you happy, and we find this upsetting. Please understand that we are never upset with you, only the situation.

18. Your INFJ is very idealistic and principled. If you need us to go against our ideals or principles to make you happy, this can cause us a great deal of internal turmoil and tension. Please be mindful of our ideals and principles and avoid asking us to go against them.

19. When an INFJ’s ideals or principles are offended, we will pull away quickly. This may look very similar to our normal modes of being lost in our heads to the untrained eye, as we do not like to cause tension or disharmony. To best care for your INFJ, learn to spot this reaction and quickly make right whatever was wrong, even if it is simply an opinion. This will bring us back to the harmony we need to be our healthiest.

20. No one will ever love you as much as your INFJ.